July 20, 2011

Wedding | Work | Life

Well, well, well....look who has returned. There's been so much that's happened since Brandi and I booked our honeymoon...aka the last post I did in late April.

The amount of work and traveling I have done since then would be considered insane by many. I ended up hitting a stretch shortly after my last post where I worked 7 days a week for 7 weeks straight. And no we aren't talking about typical hours either. The good majority of those days were 12+ hour days on the road. My first weekend off in what seemed like forever was 4th of July weekend. An interesting weekend to say the least but I'll get into the nitty-gritty shortly.

I'm going to dedicate this post to getting you all caught up over what Brandi and I have been up to.

Let's go back to May 4-8 when I headed out to Atlanta, GA for Round 2 of the Formula Drift series. Having never been to Atlanta except to the airport for a quick layover, I was pretty excited since this event was held at Road Atlanta. For me, this is one of the top 10 race tracks I've wanted to visit. The scenery is unreal with tons of trees, grass and a gorgeous track layout loaded with elevation changes.









Just a few weeks after my trip to Atlanta, I was back out on the road June 1-5 and headed to Palm Beach, FL for Round 3 of Formula Drift. This was not only a new venue for myself but this was also Formula Drift's first time holding an event at Palm Beach International Raceway. Florida sure did live up to it's hype regarding the humidity. As soon as we stepped foot off the plane, you could feel it hit you like big slap in the face. Considering I practically sweat in the shower, this was the sign of a long 4 days to come. Luckily for me, my home-base for the weekend was inside an air-conditioned media center. As you can imagine, my spot became the popular place to be with temperatures reaching into the 90's along with 90% humidity. We all thought it was some sort of joke when we were told they had gators around certain portions of the track. To our surprise, this was serious shit!













Just when I got settled back in at home, it was off to Wall, NJ for Round 4 of Formula Drift from June 15-19. I know what you're thinking...NJ? Like 'Jersey Shore Fisting Pumping' status? No, not even close. Take a moment to look up Wall, NJ and you'll see that we were out in the middle of nowhere! Nonetheless, it was a great time with the Formula Drift crew just like always! The hotel we stayed at had a lounge/bar that ended up being where we had out staff meetings and dinner. Little did we know, Friday and Saturday were karaoke night! This place had no idea what hit them! When 100+ drift related drivers, crew, or staff came through the door with only 2 bartenders, you knew right away they weren't going to handle it. Regardless, it was only a matter of time before the singing and laughter began!





Once I came back from New Jersey, things sort of settled down a bit for Brandi and I. We were finally able to finish our wedding registry and she actually had two bridal showers - one with just really close friends and bridesmaids and the other was with all of our female friends and relatives.

I can't explain how much it meant to me to show up to both showers during the gift opening and see Brandi just glow with excitement over everyone celebrating the love we share for each other. When I showed up to the smaller bridal shower, I brought Brandi, my mom, Brandi's mom and all of the girls some flowers to show some appreciation for all that they've done to make this so memorable for us.

They had the smaller of the two showers at a really nice tea house in Santa Monica, CA. No bridal shower at a tea house would complete without some fancy-shmancy hats right? Not to worry, the ladies had this covered!







In between both of Brandi's bridal showers, we "enjoyed" our first weekend together when I didn't have to work. After 50 days of working everyday, to say I was ready to party would be an understatement. I was long overdue for some free time with Brandi, our family and our group of friends. It just so happened to be 4th of July weekend so there would be plenty of things to do. As luck would have it, the Valley would experience 3 days of 105 degree heat when our air conditioner unit decided to catch on fire.

As Brandi was getting ready for work on that Friday morning, she woke me up in a panic smelling smoke. As soon as I got up, I could tell it was electrical just by the smell. After unplugging everything in the house while more and more smoke poured through the vents causing the smoke detectors to go off, it was time to call the fire dept. Turns out that the motor blew and caught on fire but the fuze never blew which would have turned it off. Needless to say, our house stayed at 95 degrees during that weekend even at 10pm. Thus, the 'want' to party became more of a necessity.

That Saturday night was spent at Ashely and Alex's wedding in Culver City. Imagine putting suit on in a house that's 95 degrees...yep, you guessed it...not fun!






Sunday was BBQ day at Maritza's house BBQ'ing, swimming and laughing all day!









Monday was a pool party extravaganza at Tracy's! Many games of beer pong, flip cup and water-basketball were played! Always nice to be around our group of friends who are endless amounts of fun! I should also mention how responsible Brandi and I were that day. Since we knew that we'd be partying pretty damn hard, we decided to skip driving and hopped on the metro. Yep, that's right. We took the bus in our swim attire and a 30-pack of beer on the bus. It's okay...we don't judge you for not being as cool as we are.











Come Tuesday, my hungover self worked from home so that the air-conditioning saviors could fix our unit. Now that we're back in business, you better believe I keep this house as cold as possible!

Just a little over a week ago, Brandi had the larger bridal shower and let's just say it was memorable! Since she's marrying an Italian, it was only right to have it at Buca Di Beppo's. When I made my grand appearance, it was a little more special this time. Not only was I accompanied by my soon to be father in-law, but we walked in during a performance by "Michael Bolton." Long story short, Brandi and I have both shared an incredible passion and many inside jokes about the famed singer. Low and behold, my mom decided to hire a Michael Bolton impersonator to show up and sing a few songs. Boy was everyone in for a treat. Not only did he not look like Michael Bolton (more like Rod Stewart to me), let's just say his voice wasn't exactly on par with what Mr. Bolton would approve of. Putting his non-Bolton-like looks and lack of a singing voice aside, he was incredibly funny and had everyone laughing hysterically. I guarantee you it's a bridal shower that no one in attendance will ever forget!










Here's where I get a taste of my own medicine.

Generally, I am the one traveling between Brandi and I. She has worked her whooty off and finally got the opportunity she's been waiting for! She was asked to go to Hong Kong for 1 week for market where they'll present the newest lines of handbags to different distributors. It's something I know she has been dying to do and I couldn't be any prouder that she has accomplished this goal and getting to experience such an amazing place the way she should be....by that I mean, BALLER STATUS!



I hate to be away from her at this time and of course we wish we could always travel together but regardless, I can't express how proud I am of her for working her way up to this level. She's the one who has pushed me to work harder, strive for what I want and never take opportunities for granted. The opportunities I get to experience right now and the traveling I get to do are because of her. She's pushed me and made me believe in myself more than I ever have. Thank you b...you'll never know how much it means to me that you believe in me so much!

As fate would have it, the day before Brandi comes home from Hong Kong, I leave for Seattle, WA for Round 5 of Formula Drift. It's very bittersweet since I miss her so much but I am happy that we both understand that following what we're passionate about requires sacrifices and a great deal of understanding. One of these days we'll be successful enough to be able to travel together instead of alone. That will be when I can say I've "made it."


Well folks, if you've managed to stick with me throughout all of this, consider yourself all caught up now. That's been the past few months of our lives in a nutshell.

On another note, Brandi and I have accomplished so much wedding planning amongst all of this chaos. How? I have no idea but it's happened. Brandi has really taken the bull by the horns and done all that she could to make our wedding day one that will go down in history! Every day that goes by and we get closer and closer, the more excited I get. I've pictured how this day will go down so many times and I know it's going to be that but times 1 billion.

There's no words to describe how anxious, excited, thrilled and happy I am to have Brandi as my soon to be wife.

Until next time...

-Brandon

April 29, 2011

Honeymoon | Booked

The vacation of a lifetime has been booked. Brandi and I will will be celebrating our marriage for 2 weeks in Tahiti! The word excited doesn't even come close to how we're feeling right now!

April 26, 2011

Life | Work | Dad | Brandi

Although it's only been a few days since my last "revival" post, my mind has been running at such a crazy pace. Between every day life and work, it's hard not to get caught up in it. Since I am going to use this place to talk about every day life, work, traveling etc., it would probably be wise for me to get you up to speed so you know what I'm referring to. Time to briggity-break it on down for ya!

Life:

Brandi and I have lived together for over 7 years and have dated for 8 years this coming May. We recently got engaged on October 29, 2010 and have been planning our wedding since the beginning of the year. It's been such a great experience and I've learned so much about myself, Brandi and us as a couple. It's crazy to think that I am marrying the girl I dated back in the 7th grade. I see some of my younger cousins growing up and realize I was that age when I first locked eyes on Brandi. From there, I did every awkward, funny (or so I thought) or obnoxious thing you could imagine to get her attention. Clearly, it worked. Here we are many years later planning the biggest day of our lives together.

As much as Brandi and I are independent, we owe a lot of what is happening to the support being offered by our family and friends. They're second to none and we're blessed to share this special time with them.

Overall, the past year has really been life changing for me. Not just because I got engaged but even leading up to the engagement was pretty crazy. Keeping a secret like that was much harder than I ever anticipated. I wanted it to be so perfect and it turned out exactly how I planned. After we got through the crazy holiday season (we have massive amount of family members on both sides), the wedding planning began. Let me tell you how awesome it is being engaged to someone who LOVES event planning. Not to say I don’t know how to plan anything but this is where I have let Brandi take the lead.

This is like the Indy 500, Daytona 500, Super Bowl, World Series etc. all combined into one event for us. With her passion and experience for event planning, what is normally a nightmare for most people has become something the two of us have enjoyed so much. Not only that, we have become even closer to each other. Hard to believe but it’s true. We used to be some wild and crazy kids and don’t get me wrong, we still have it in us but nowadays (like this past weekend), it’s staying home together watching TV sipping on a fresh vodka/soda that seems to make me the happiest.

Work:

Being far beyond passionate for all things automotive, my career path over the past 6 years has been exactly that; all things automotive. From selling lifts and heavy-duty shop equipment to shops and overseeing a NASCAR sponsorship for GES, my most recent venture was with WebRidesTV. I handled many aspects from online advertising, car reviews, photography, event coverage, video production etc.

During those few years, I thought I had the perfect gig. In many people’s eyes, I did. But with the support of Brandi and her knowing my true potential, I started to look elsewhere. I had pretty much soaked up all that was being offered and hit a plateau so to speak.

After months of discussions, I was given an opportunity that I have wanted for a long time. A place where I could plant my feet. Some place that was going to test me like I haven't been tested before yet offer me opportunities that only hard working, determined and focused people get. Well, lucky for me, I landed it. Since then, I've been doing things and going to places that just a few years ago were dreams of mine. I'm now with the ID Agency based out of downtown Los Angeles. We are a PR and Ad Agency that focuses on the automotive and motorsports industries. We have some very large clients that will remain nameless for the time being. My duties can range from event coordination, social campaigns, online advertising, media buys and overseeing website development.

With the amount of clients we work with and the amount of projects that are being done simultaneously, I found out very quickly that balance is going to be key. Not just balancing work related things, but balancing work and my personal life. Although I give my all to work, I also need to give my all to my fiance, family and friends. But if I'm giving my all to one thing, how can I give my all to other things?

Balance.

It’s already been an interesting, challenging, exciting journey that I am grateful to experience.

Happy Birthday Dad:

My dad is actually one of the main reasons behind my automotive/motor sports infatuation. Let’s put it this way, my mom was pregnant with me and they were already taking me to the track. Growing up as a child, I spent more time at a racetrack than doing anything else. I wouldn’t change that one bit! The track was my dads “happy place” as it is for me. It’s the one place I can go and feel most connected with him; especially Willow Springs.

Yesterday was actually my dad’s 60th birthday. He passed away in Dec. of 2002 so days like yesterday are generally rough for me. I typically psych myself out a week or so prior and constantly remind myself, it’s okay, he’s watching over us. But with how hectic things have been, I guess I just forgot. Not about his birthday but about mentally preparing myself to just get through the day without being a wreck. Not that there is anything wrong with being a wreck, but it’s just not me.

On my way to work, I decided to stop off at Forrest Lawn where he is buried to pay my respects and wish him a happy birthday. My ritual for visiting him is to make 2-checkered flags and stick them in the ground in front of his head stone. It’s my way of letting him know I was there. As I stuck the flags into the grass, I quickly found myself in tears. With all that is going on in my life, it’s so hard to grasp that I can’t physically share this experience with him. For his entire life, he fought and worked so hard get what I am now experiencing. I hope that in heaven, people are able to feel proud while watching over us. Thank you dad for putting me on the right track in life and hope you had a good birthday.

After such a mentally exhausting day of working and thinking so much about my dad, Brandi and I ended the day by a sharing a nice Italian dinner with my mom, sister and cousin Vanessa. I definitely need it, that’s for sure.

Thank you Brandi:

Every so often, someone will ask Brandi or myself how we do it. How are we only 28 years old and have been together longer than most marriages last (at least in Los Angeles). There are many reasons but here is just one of them.

I went to open my closest door this morning and found this miniature note taped to the door handle.

The fact that Brandi knew the type of day I had yesterday, while she’s fighting the flu, she still managed to take the time to make sure I have a good day. Things like this mean the world to me! It’s not about the materialistic things; it’s about showing you care. That’s exactly what she did and that is just one of the many reasons I am and will always be her biggest fan. I love you Brandi.

April 21, 2011

Executive | Decision



Well, well, well....look who decided to revive 2brans and bring it back to life. Betcha didn't see this coming. Although I may seem new to the blogospere, I've done my fair share over the past few years but it's all been work related. As you probably know, the other half of B'Squared is my fiance Brandi (who gets her blog on here). She's been blogging long before it became trendy, let alone a way for corporations to communicate with the outside world.

Secretly, I've always been somewhat envious of Brandi for having a well-known place to express her feelings and let the world know how truly awesome she is. Ya see, I've never been the type of person to just open and let others in on what I do, who I am, etc. Guess it's time for this kid to step outta the box.

This blog was initially started by Brandi and I as a 356 daily photo blog. Take a picture every day and post it. Sounds easy doesn't it? Go ahead, try it. Not to say it's not possible, but I guess we didn't realize what we were in for. We got about half through the 365 days before it seems like life, work, life, more work and life all got in the way of us accomplishing something so simple.

I've decided to make the executive decision to not only bring this blog back to life but to also call it my online home.

After getting engaged in October of 2010 and starting a career in January of 2011, our lives have never had so much going on. After thinking of all the great things that have happened since we've been engaged and how exciting it all is, I thought to myself, if there is ever a time to start documenting all of this from my perspective and sharing it with the world, it's now.

So, here I am. Blogging. Welcome back 2brans.

Buckle up, hang on and enjoy the ride into yet another glimpse into the life of B'Squared.